AN ELEGANCE coach has revealed the top mistakes women make that stop them from getting a high calibre man.
Antonia Higham often uses her social media to share her top tips and tricks when it comes to elegance, including how to behave, dress and eat.
And in one video, she told viewers that high calibre men are put off by three key things in a woman.
The first, she said, is gossip.
Antonia explained: “By filling his ears with dirty deeds by other people, you’re just loudly telling him that you’re insecure and have low self-esteem.”
The second issue she’s seen many single women suffer from is refusing to take compliments.
“Number two: deflecting compliments,” she said.
“Please don’t do this, it just shows him that you’re childish and you’re not confident in yourself and your abilities…
“So why would anyone else be?”
And the final issue that stops a high calibre man from approaching a single woman is cigarettes.
“High calibre men have discipline,” she shared. “They’re probably really into their fitness and their diet and someone that smokes just probably isn’t on their same wavelength.”
People were quick to comment on TikTok user @antoniahigham’s post as one person wrote: “i find gossiping is only those that are jalous whom does it and smoking its just smell fowl i dont understand how can one be attracted to smoke but ok”
Another said: “Me and my bf love gossiping TOGETHER though”
And a third shared: “dang it so do one and two”.
Meanwhile, a rebel replied: “Let me tell u somthing dear lady, we dont care about men’s opinion”.
