Since my partner laughed at my penis I have trouble getting an erection
DEAR DEIDRE: EVEN though I’ve got a tiny penis, I’ve always been able to satisfy a woman. Until now.
Whenever I try to get a decent erection with my current partner, it disappears.
Even worse, the last time it happened she laughed at how small I am.
I’m 30 and my penis is only a few inches when erect – virtually a micro penis.
It used to be a real issue when I was younger but I learned I could tempt a woman into bed with my confidence and sense of humour. And I know how to use my limited assets to give pleasure.
But lately I’ve been with someone who I really like and want to impress.
The first time I went soft, she said my flaccid penis looked like a button mushroom.
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Since then, I can’t get aroused because I keep remembering her laugh and cruel jibe.
It’s making me feel depressed.
DEIDRE SAYS: Your partner probably laughed in embarrassment rather than at your penis. But as this is a sensitive subject, it is understandable that her reaction would hurt you.
Your lack of confidence and anxiety about this is why you can’t get an erection any more.
Talk to her about how your lack of erection is making you feel low.
Any decent person would reassure you and work with you to improve your confidence.
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