I split with ex over messages to very young girls and I want to report him
DEAR DEIDRE: I AM thinking of reporting my ex to his employers because he is messing around with younger women – much younger.
My ex is 30 and I’m 28. We were together for two years.
I thought we were happy. Then I caught him on five occasions on video chats to girls, getting himself off.
He called it quits a month ago and is already dating a younger woman. It has ripped me apart.
I am struggling to get on with everyday life knowing he is seeing girls who I’m convinced are underage.
Should I inform his employer?
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DEIDRE SAYS: It’s a tricky situation. If these young women are in fact underage then what he is doing is illegal and it should be taken very seriously.
I would urge you to talk this through with Stop It Now (stopitnow.org.uk) who help people concerned about children who are being exploited and abused.
Together you can work out a plan of action.
Depending on how those conversations go, you can then decide what to do.
But please don’t report him to his employers simply to get revenge for the way he treated you.