I still love manipulative and nasty cheating ex and miss sex with him
DEAR DEIDRE: EVEN though he was cheating on me, I miss sex with my ex.
I am 33 and he is 35. We were engaged even though things were rocky.
I suspected he was cheating and was proved right.
We split up four months ago.
I was rebuilding my life when he got in touch again.
When we were together he was abusive, manipulative, nasty and bullying.
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He separated me from my friends and charmed everyone.
But I still love and care about him.
What should I do?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Life may feel flat for now without all the drama, but you are so much better off without him.
Sex is important, but do you crave passion with him because this was the only time you had his undivided attention?
Don’t forget all the awful things he did the rest of the time.
Dig in and keep busy. Don’t go back to him.
Put your needs first and focus on your future.
In time you will get stronger and see him for what he is – abusive.
My support pack Addictive Love explains more.