DEAR DEIDRE: I WORRY my addiction to porn – including going on OnlyFans and creating adult website accounts – is hurting my relationship with my girlfriend.
My girlfriend discovered I was using OnlyFans after a random person messaged us on Instagram.
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But she forgave me. I was ashamed and promised to stop.
I managed to for a while but last week I created an account for another site just to see how it all worked.
I deleted the account after a few minutes but now the same person has found out and is trying to message me again, saying they know what I’ve been up to.
I’m 31 and my girlfriend’s 29. I need to tell her but I don’t know how.
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I also don’t know why I keep doing things like this. I need to stop.
I love my girlfriend and don’t want to lose her.
DEIDRE SAYS: Online porn is designed to be addictive and it’s brave of you to admit to having a problem.
My support pack Internet Pornography Worry? has lots of information about the reasons for this and on where you can turn for help.
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Try the free Kick Start recovery programme, which provides self-help (sexaddictionhelp.co.uk).
