I can’t ejaculate during sex and worry I won’t be able to give wife a baby
DEAR DEIDRE: I’M worried I’ll never be a dad because I can’t climax during sex.
The only time I ejaculate is when I pleasure myself.
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I’m 31 and my wife is 29. We’ve been together for five years.
It makes no sense. I adore my wife and find her incredibly attractive, yet I can’t orgasm no matter how good the sex is.
I even have trouble maintaining an erection.
It’s not a new problem – I’ve always been the same since my late teens.
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It’s embarrassing but my wife has been understanding.
But now I am getting stressed. She has always wanted children and I’m worried I won’t be able to give her that.
If I can’t ejaculate during sex, does that make me infertile?
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DEIDRE SAYS: As you can masturbate normally, it sounds as though your problems are more psy-chological rather than physical.
Anxiety over sexual performance can block people’s sexual responses.
My support packs, Men Who Can’t Climax and Solving Erection Problems, explain self-help therapy.
But, if need be, the sperm that you produce through masturbation can be used to get your wife pregnant. Your GP can tell you more.
You can also consult my support pack, Want To Have A Baby.
Either way, you should be able to have the family you long for.