DEAR DEIDRE: I’M finding it more and more difficult to ejaculate. I don’t have a partner. I got divorced at 35 and have been on my own pretty much ever since. I’m now 58. But I enjoy pornography and sometimes chat to girls via webcam for thrills, although recently I’ve found it harder to climax. […]
DEAR DEIDRE: I’M finding it more and more difficult to ejaculate.
I don’t have a partner. I got divorced at 35 and have been on my own pretty much ever since. I’m now 58.
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But I enjoy pornography and sometimes chat to girls via webcam for thrills, although recently I’ve found it harder to climax.
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It’s really worrying for me, as I never used to have this problem.
Do you think it’s down to my age, or using too much porn?
DEIDRE SAYS: It could be due to a combination of too much pornography and your age.
But my best advice is for you to have a chat with your GP just to make sure there is no underlying medical cause.
Don’t be embarrassed. A healthy sex life and even masturbating is good for us mentally and physically.
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Discussing it is all in a day’s work for your doctor.
Try to focus on other things and ease off the pornography. You might find that in a few weeks your sexual urges are stronger.
