My boyfriend won’t say why he needs a £2k loan – does he love me or my money?
DEAR DEIDRE: THE day after we got back together, my boyfriend asked me to lend him £2,000. I don’t know if he came back for me or my money.
We’re both 24. We were together for three years but split up last month.
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He cheated on me with someone he met while working abroad.
Last weekend we met up and he apologised.
He said he has changed and would quit his overseas job so distance was no longer an issue.
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I realised how much I missed him. I can’t imagine life without him. So I agreed to try again.
But the next day he asked for the loan. He won’t say what it’s for.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You are right to be suspicious. It is very odd to ask for such a large sum when you have only just got back together.
Don’t feel like you have to give in to his demands.
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You do not know why he wants it and there is no guarantee he will pay you back.
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