I can’t stop seeing escorts and erotic masseuses
DEAR DEIDRE: I THINK I have an addiction to escorts and erotic masseuses.
What started as a way to get sex when I felt lonely has developed into a problem that is making my life a misery.
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I’m a 28-year-old guy with a normal libido.
I would love to meet a lovely partner and have a fulfilling relationship but I haven’t had a girlfriend in years.
So I started paying for sex.
At first, it was a thrill – and it filled a gap in my life. But now I am stuck in a vicious cycle.
No matter how good the sex is, afterwards, I always feel empty and sad.
That makes me go looking for more sex.
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I’m spending more money than I can afford on these women, which is making me feel even worse.
How do I get out of this habit and make my life better?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Sex can become an addiction when it’s used to fill a gap in your life. My support pack on Sex Addiction will tell you more.
Empty, paid-for sex is making you miserable.
Try the Kick Start Recovery Programme, a free self-help solution (sexaddictionhelp.co.uk).
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