DEAR DEIDRE: THE stress of selling my boyfriend’s house has made him question our future.
We’ve had a few fallings out and he’s told me he no longer knows what he wants.
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He assures me that he loves me, but I feel sick and anxious all the time.
I don’t know what to think since he said this. I just assumed we’d always be together.
I’m 35 and my boyfriend is 38.
We’ve been together for four years.
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We are both currently living with our family while the sale goes through.
I don’t know whether to try and forget what he said or ask him if his plans involve me.
DEIDRE SAYS: Selling a house is one of the most stressful things you can do in life so it’s not surprising it has put a strain on your relationship.
If he is being indecisive, then you’re probably going to have to take the reins and start making some decisions yourself.
If it’s a case of being patient, go with it and see what happens once the house sale goes through.
As the weeks pass, I hope things become clearer.
