Usman Umar might not own up to his own mistakes, but Before The 90 Days viewers understand how he betrayed Kimberly Menzies with his lies.
Usman “Sojaboy” Umar and Kimberly Menzies are facing a breakup on 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days after a record one day of officially dating thanks to Usman’s betrayal. Older American Kimberly has been unapologetic about how much she wanted the young Nigerian rapper to date her. However, now that Usman and Kimberly are officially dating, they might have one of the shortest relationships in 90 Day Fiancé history. Kimberly might be ending things for good with Usman due to his mystery woman Zara, an age-appropriate lady whom he previously dated.
Like Usman’s ex-wife Lisa Hamme, Kimberly is an older American woman pursuing a romance with the aspiring global superstar. Kimberly has been an avid supporter of Usman down to always wearing T-shirts of him. Though the two talked for over a year online, Usman was hesitant to make things official once he met Kimberly in person. He eventually decided to make Kimberly his girlfriend and officially date her. However, Usman then confessed that his song “Zara” was about a woman he dated for four months while chatting online with Kimberly as a friend.
Usman might not have cheated on Kimberly, but the way he handled the Zara situation was a big fail for viewers. Usman concealed the reality of his relationship status from Kimberly when he was likely fully aware of how much Kimberly was into him. 90 Day Fiancé fans have witnessed an eager Kimberly try to win Usman over since he has repeatedly told her she was his “potential girlfriend.” Therefore, it’s not unreasonable for Kimberly to have thought that he was interested in potentially dating her while they were talking. However, for part of the time, he was also secretly dating Zara. Since he spoke with Kimberly daily, he purposely concealed this fact from her. Many fans consider this a big deception.
When it comes to Usman’s biggest betrayal of Kimberly, it is the fact that he lied to her face. Usman invited Kimberly to watch him film a music video about his ex, and he blatantly told her that the song was not about one person in particular but women in general. This was a flat-out lie that Usman is now trying to downplay on Before The 90 Days. He is justifying the fact that he never cheated on Zara or Kimberly rather than addressing the fact that he lied to Kimberly and concealed a relationship from her while speaking to her daily. Kimberly clearly took the situation very seriously, as she was rattled by the lies and sensitive to cheating situations.
Usman and Kimberly’s future is hanging on by a thread, but some Before The 90 Days viewers were also skeptical of Usman trying to make amends. Usman brought the expensive gifts that Kimberly bought him back to her in a sign of good faith. However, some viewers think that Kimberly is paying Usman frequent money. Therefore, they theorized that he wanted to appear apologetic by pretending to return the gifts so that he could win Kimberly and her purse strings back. 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days viewers will have to stay tuned to see how Usman and Kimberly’s fight plays out.
