We’re back together but my boyfriend hasn’t told his parents as they hate me
DEAR DEIDRE: WE’RE back together, but my boyfriend hasn’t told his parents because they hate me.
I made a big mistake while we were on a break a year ago and slept with someone else.
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He was upset and told them, and even though he understands and is over it, they won’t forgive me.
They say I’m not good enough for him and that he can’t trust me.
We’re both 21 and have been together, on and off, for three years.
I love him so much and want our future to be together.
But if he won’t even tell his mum and dad we’re in a relationship again, how can that happen?
How will we ever live together or get married?
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I used to get on really well with his mum too.
I don’t want to be anyone’s shameful secret. What should I do?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Your boyfriend is an adult, and his parents can’t control who he chooses to be with.
Tell him how you feel and ask him to reassure you that he does see a future with you.
Ask for clarity on when he will tell his parents about your relationship.
In time they will hopefully see that you’re a good person. After all, if you had broken up, you didn’t cheat with this other person.