I’m a certified relationship coach – just because you fight with your partner doesn’t mean you picked the wrong person

SUCCESSFUL romantic relationships take a lot of work.  

You must learn to navigate difficult situations, communicate properly, and compromise on certain things.

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An expert on TikTok has gained popularity for her videos that offer sage relationship advice[/caption]

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She recently revealed a reason why even healthy relationships sometimes don’t work[/caption]

One woman, a certified relationship coach who goes by @RelationshipBoss on TikTok, has gained popularity online for her videos that offer useful tips for couples.

She said that even if you fight with your partner, it doesn’t mean your relationship is in trouble.

“This is the hard truth about healthy relationships and how they look and feel,” she said. “And let me tell you, they’re not easy.

“Most times in relationships, we give up after the honeymoon phase when things start to feel really hard.

“Meaning, the minute the passion is gone, the beautiful butterflies are gone, and you start to have to have those really hard conversations, we just assume that we’re with the wrong person.”

This assumption, the expert claimed, is false.

“Healthy relationships are so much more than just picking the right person.

“Healthy relationships require you to have those hard conversations. They require you to build trust.

“And they require you to heal your trauma as an individual and heal anything you may have gone through together as a couple.”

She revealed why even healthy relationships sometimes fail.  

“The reason why most relationships don’t make it is because you’re not willing and open to have those hard conversations.

“You’re not willing and open to heal your trauma and to move forward from whatever is holding you back from your past.”

If you find yourself stressed about a couple fights with your partner, or worried about differences in opinion, you may want to think about the bigger picture before you just call it quits.

“Healthy relationships are full of amazing moments, but they’re also full of really hard moments.”

Viewers were thankful for the sage wisdom, and some of them gained a better understanding of their own partnerships:

“Listen. Being in a healthy, loving relationship has been the most challenging thing to tackle in my life,” one person shared.

“My current (and healthiest) relationship is the first time I fully realized I have toxic habits that I need to work on. It’s HARD but worth it,” added another.

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@RelationshipBoss said you might not want to give up on your relationship so quickly[/caption]