I’m a psychologist – here’s the one thing you must ask the person you’re dating about their ex-partners
WHEN in love, it’s only natural that people tend to see past the flaws and red flags.
But, according to a psychologist, this is might cause you a great deal of pain and disappointment in the future.
Daniel Acon, a rising TikTok star, revealed that in order to prevent this from happening, it’s best to find out about their love life prior to meeting you.
”You have to ask them how their past relationships tend to end or where it goes wrong,” he said.
This, he explained, is a better and a more accurate representation of their true character rather than what they portray themselves to be.
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”People tend to show the best version of themselves when you first start dating them.”
It appeared that for many viewers this was true, as one shared: ”my ex said his ex blamed him for cheating on her and that’s how it ended, apparently she was right bc he also cheated on me.”
Another one commented: ”Wish I’d done that…both my exes are covert female narcissists.
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”They literally do what they did to me to every guy.”
”Yep I did he said the girls broke up because he didn’t give them enough time.. and that’s also the reason we broke up yesterday,” a newly-single user wrote.
However, there were also those who pointed out that their loved one can also be deceiving, like this person who thought: ”They never gonna be honest about that.”
”They lie … remember the details and ask again in 2 mos,” a fellow Instagram user agreed.
”What if they don’t realise their fault (if any) .. narrative could be blaming,” one was wondering.
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