I made a huge mistake and slept with my partner after we split up
DEAR DEIDRE: I MADE a huge mistake and slept with my partner after we split up. We had been together for 12 years but grew apart.
All my partner wants to do is drink and take drugs. I want children and my own home.
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I’m 34 and my partner’s 35. I called it a day a few weeks ago and he moved out. But he came round when I had a problem with my car and we ended up having sex.
We agreed to give it another go but a week on I’ve realised I don’t love him. I’m messing with his feelings and now he wants to move back in.
In the meantime I’ve developed feelings for another man I’ve been flirting with but he’s in a relationship.
He told me if things were different we’d be together.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You may have found your ex hard to resist but you are keeping him dangling on a string by giving him false hope. Plus you are breaking the lockdown rules.
Neither of these men is right for you. Respect yourself enough to hold out for someone who you really care for and will give you 100 per cent of themselves.
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