DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD the most thrilling sex ever when I cheated on my wife with another man.
But the excitement soon subsided and now I feel overwhelmingly guilty.
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I’ve been with my wife for 12 years.
I’m 42 and she’s 39.
She injured her back last year and we couldn’t have sex.
I started looking at pornography and drifted on to some gay sites.
I talked to a colleague about it a few times.
He’s 35 and was very reassuring.
After of couple of weeks we went back to his place and I tried sex with another man for the first time.
Over the next few months it became a regular thing.
We also had great fun doing role play.
I haven’t seen him since early December as I am now working from home. But I can’t wait to see him again.
DEIDRE SAYS: Our sexuality is on a sliding scale.
Some people are definitely heterosexual or gay, but many people are a little in between.
Looking at gay pornography sparked your curiosity but cheating is cheating, whether with a man or a woman.
By cheating you also risk spreading coronavirus and sexually transmitted infections.
If you love your wife, you will stop giving in to no-strings sex.
Getting rumbled will lead to trust issues and could end your marriage, never mind compromising your job.
My support pack on Cheating will help you move forward.
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