DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER I caught my boyfriend kissing another woman, he punched a wall and broke his hand.
We’ve been together for six months. I’m 22 and my boyfriend celebrated his 21st birthday in our local pub.
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One of his colleagues was there.
She’s 25 and has a reputation as a girl who sleeps around.
We all drank lots and my boyfriend was well away when his cousin tapped him on the shoulder and asked him to go outside.
I went to look for him and I saw him snogging his colleague.
He was drunk but looked horrified when he saw me.
I ended it with him there and then.
He protested but I wouldn’t listen.
He then punched the wall and was taken to hospital.
He’s mega-angry with himself and I think I can forgive him, but how can I forget things so this doesn’t poison our relationship?
DEIDRE SAYS: What you need to do is create loads more positive memories as an overlay, so that one silly incident stops seeming relevant.
Tell your boyfriend you both need to put fresh energy into making one another happy.
My e-leaflet Your Relationship MOT can help but be clear that if it happens again, he is history.
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