My husband gets so angry when I bring up how much porn he watches
DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband gets so angry when I bring up how much porn he watches.
He hurls his phone across the room, often smashing it.
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We have a satisfying sex life but he likes to spend an hour alone in the evenings and I know he’s watching porn and going on sex sites.
We are both in our forties.
He reckons he finds them funny and says: “Maybe I’ll learn something.”
I’ve said I find it hurtful and it makes me feel so inadequate.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Hurling a phone across the room is bullying behaviour.
That level of anger must be scary but it shows how defensive he feels.
He knows he is damaging your relationship.
But he also knows you have lived with it so far.
You must decide if it matters enough to give him an ultimatum: That he changes or you are through. But don’t say it unless you mean it.
See freedomprogramme.co.uk for help deciding.
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