The guy I was seeing ended things unexpectedly but I still have feelings for him
DEAR DEIDRE: THE guy I was seeing ended everything unexpectedly after six months.
We tried to be friends and texted a bit but I thought about him a lot.
We FaceTimed last week for the first occasion since the split.
I realised the feelings I had for him hadn’t gone away.
The conversation flowed and I felt there was still something there between us.
I don’t know whether I should tell him.
I don’t want to ruin the friendship we have. I’m 24 and he is 26.
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DEIDRE SAYS: While it is possible to stay friends when a relationship ends, if you know you want more it is better to be clear over where you stand rather than be stuck feeling unsure.
Ask him outright if he sees a future for the two of you.
Try not to get your hopes up too high.
If he won’t answer your question clearly, move on.
My e-leaflet Mend Your Broken Heart will help.
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