I have a high sex drive but my husband prefers watching porn and barely touches me

DEAR DEIDRE: I MISS my husband’s touch but he prefers porn to me.

I’m 30 and he is 33. We’ve been married for four years. My husband works shifts but often watches porn when I am out doing my job, nine to five.

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I’m bisexual and I’ve had relationships with both sexes.

I have a high sex drive. Romps with my husband have never been frequent.

He says he’s just not that into sex and refuses to discuss it.

Do you think, just as I like women, he might like men but won’t say?

DEIDRE SAYS: It is more likely his lack of sex drive is down to an addiction to porn, which blunts the appetite for real-life sexual relationships.

Tell him you are worried for him and for your relationship, which won’t survive like this.

Ask him to wean himself off porn so you can rediscover one another sexually.

My e-leaflet on Internet Pornography Worries explains how.

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