Should I drop my apprenticeship to join the guy I want in New Zealand?
DEAR DEIDRE: THE guy I really want to be with wants me to join him in New Zealand.
I’m 18 and an apprentice. I met this guy at a party last year. He’s 22 and we got along so well. He said he fancied me but he was going travelling and he didn’t want a relationship.
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I was gutted. But I got on with my life and even went on a few dates.
At Christmas, this same guy came back just for a while. We went out for a drink. He said I should go out to join him in New Zealand.
I could never afford the air fare but I can’t stop thinking about him. Do you think we could have a chance?
DEIDRE SAYS: Perhaps, but you don’t really know him.
Keep chatting to him online and see if you can save for what would be an exciting trip. Set alerts for when air fares are lower.
But, meanwhile, focus on your apprenticeship and enjoy seeing friends here. They’re very real, he’s a bit of a fantasy.
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