My boyfriend likes to pretend to be me and message my exes asking for pics
DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend has been logging on to my Facebook and sending messages to my exes pretending to be me.
I wondered why I kept getting random messages from old boyfriends I hadn’t thought about in ages.
Then I realised it happened when I’d left my Facebook logged on in my phone.
I managed to catch my boyfriend out.
He’d even asked some of these guys to send photos of themselves, sometimes rude ones.
It makes me very uneasy, as I wouldn’t behave like that.
When I confronted him, he said it was just a joke and I shouldn’t be so uptight.
He did it again this week.
How can I get through to him that this must stop?
I am 25 and he is 28.
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DEIDRE SAYS: This makes me feel very uneasy as well.
There is nothing funny about this.
Is he trying to catch you out?
Is he comparing himself to your exes, which suggests an unhealthy jealous streak?
My instinct is that you should break with him.
If you really care for him, insist he tell you what is driving him to do this.
Then you can decide if you have a future together.
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