The first time I tried to have sex the girl laughed at me now I’m scared to try again
DEAR DEIDRE: THE first time I tried to have sex, the girl laughed at me.
Now I’m seeing a new girl and we get on great but I am worried it will happen again.
I’m 22 and still a virgin.
My manhood is small – about 4.5in when erect.
I tried to have sex with a girl when I was 18 and it didn’t go well.
She took off my boxers, laughed and said I had no chance of satisfying her.
Then she left. I felt humiliated.
My girlfriend and I have been together for three months, are very happy and are talking about having sex.
But suppose the same thing happens again, or I am too small to satisfy her?
I hate having this problem.
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