Cheat ex got back in touch and gave me hope then ditched me again
DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex, who I love, called me out of the blue, claiming that she missed me.
All the feelings I had for her came flooding back but now she’s blocked me.
We were together for two years but we began to argue and cheat and eventually split up. I’m 24 and she’s 23.
I really suffered and was left feeling lonely, whereas she had a new boyfriend within days.
She soon had a baby with this bloke too.
I’d begun to move on after three years but all of a sudden she got in touch.
We met up and had a heart-to-heart, but a couple of days later she said she wanted nothing more to do with me and blocked me.
I am gutted. I don’t understand what has happened.
Does she still have any feelings for me?
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DEIDRE SAYS: My guess is she hit a low point in her relationship and felt nostalgic for you.
But she has a child with her partner and realised she should work on her relationship with her new man instead.
It was unfair of her to use you like that but you got over her once and can again. My e-leaflet, Moving On, will help.
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