I used to want sex all the time, now I’d rather watch a film or just have an early night
DEAR DEIDRE: I USED to want sex all the time, now I’d rather watch a film or just have an early night.
I am 26 and my boyfriend is 28. Our relationship is great. We have been together three years and are compatible on so many levels.
We can talk about any and everything, have friends we share and our own.
We both make an effort to do things to please each other. My friends all envy me.
But over the past few months we have had sex only a handful of times.
He is patient and kind and never pressures me, yet I can tell it is bothering him.
I just don’t understand what’s wrong with me.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Reassure him that you want to enjoy sex again. Can you pinpoint when you lost interest? Have you been stressed lately? Are you on the Pill? All can affect libido. Speak to your GP and read my e-leaflet Reviving A Woman’s Sex Drive.
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