My wife doesn’t want sex any more because I have a really large penis

DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife doesn’t want sex with me any more because I have a really large penis.

I am 34 and she is 32. We have been married for five years and the rest of our relationship is really good.

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But even with lubricants, sex is very painful for her.

Her cries really put me off and we are both becoming very frustrated.

I play Sunday league football and afterwards my mates in the showers all joke about what it must be like to be hung like a ­donkey, but they don’t know the half of it. It’s no laughing matter. Could surgery relieve the problem?

DEIDRE SAYS: This bit of the body doesn’t respond well to surgery, but the right techniques can make the difference.

You need to go gently and have lots of foreplay so she is really aroused. My e-leaflet Manhood Too Large? explains self-help and the best positions.

A soft pad called ComeClose can help too (see comeclose.co.uk).

It’s designed to fit between the two of you and transmit good sensations while preventing discomfort.

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