DEAR DEIDRE: I LOVE having sex but I can’t reach an orgasm without watching porn.
I tend to watch threesome scenes, which is weird as I wouldn’t want to partake in this in real life.
I’m a 25-year-old woman and my husband is 28. I love him very much.
I’ve tried to turn this around by quitting porn and masturbation for long periods but I never climax with him.
I love sex, sex toys and being touched by my husband, but that just doesn’t take me there. I haven’t watched porn in six months. I don’t feel addicted, I just miss watching porn because I miss orgasms.
DEIDRE SAYS: What is going on in your head when you’re having sex with your husband? Experiment with using fantasies to take you where you want to go.
Once it has worked for you one time, you’ll feel less inhibited about reaching a climax with your husband.
My e-leaflet Sexual Fantasies And You can help.
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