DEAR DEIDRE: My boyfriend has a secret social media account named after his unusual pet name for his penis.
He’s been using it to contact his ex, and I am gutted. He’s cheated before.
We’re both 19 and have been together a year.
The other day, Facebook suggested ‘people you might know’, based on my contacts.
An account popped up with a generic pic and the silly name my boyfriend calls his penis – a joke between us.
I laughed, but when I clicked on it, I realised it was him from the details and pictures. And the only comments were from his ex-girlfriend.
I asked him about it and he said it wasn’t him, just a coincidence.
But I don’t believe him.
What should I do?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Coincidence? Unlikely.
Your boyfriend has cheated before and your instincts tell you he’s lying now.
Ask him to be honest. But even if he comes clean, you can’t be in a relationship with someone you don’t trust.
If you don’t want to give up on him yet, read my support pack, Cheating, Can You Get Over It?, for ways to move on from infidelity.
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