DEAR DEIDRE: I DISCOVERED that my fiancée’s dad is emailing loads of other women.
My fiancée asked me to look at her dad’s laptop because he was having problems with it, and when I was trying to sort it, I saw all these messages.
Curiosity got the better of me and I started to read some of them. I was horrified. Some of them were extremely sexual and all of them were very intimate.
I feel my fiancée ought to know but how can I tell her that her dad has been doing this?
It could cause terrible trouble within her family.
Her parents celebrated their silver wedding last year. I now find it very difficult to behave normally with her dad.
My fiancée and I are both 23 and are getting married next spring. This is the last thing we need.
DEIDRE SAYS: What a headache, but it is not really your or your fiancée’s business who her dad emails.
You could have a word with your future father-in-law, but that depends on your relationship with him.
Are you close? Or could it cause problems in the run-up to your wedding?
If you’re not sure it may be best not to say anything at all.
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