DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend used to have such a dramatic physical response when we had sex – I loved it and took it as a massive compliment.
As soon as we started kissing her whole body would shake and her legs would twitch.
Now after four years of dating, she hardly shakes at all. I’m 42 and she’s 41.
We still have a good sex life and she still orgasms but her body tremors have stopped.
At the same time I’ve noticed she gets all twitchy whenever she watches something like Bridgerton on the TV and last week, she was talking to a male colleague at a work party and I could tell she was getting mini-tremors.
I’m worried she doesn’t fancy me any more and that she’s going to find someone else.
I’d like to be the one making her feel that good again.
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Deidre says: Your girlfriend sounds like she is very physical but you can’t self sabotage and base your theory on complete guess work.
Explain to her that you are concerned as she doesn’t seem to get as much out of sex as she used to.
Ask her if there is anything specifically she would like to try to spice things up and have some suggestions ready yourself.
My support pack 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex will help you both
